I wrote a blog post similar to this. It is called “How You Can Overcome Shyness”. What makes it different from other blog posts/articles is that I discussed that a shy, inexperienced, or socially awkward man should go overseas for good reasons. Go read it and give me feedback if you wish.
When I go out I feel uneasy. A host of invisible eyes seem to be creeping on me. Making eye contact with other people requires a conscious effort, but by now it’s become a discipline, a little act of courage. On good days I even smile.