There are three things that foreign women and American/Western men have in common. One, the women are as curious as as the men are. They find each other exotic and interesting. Next, women want to know the men well. Women may ask men a question such as:
- Are you men really different from the ones in our country?
American/Western men may ask a similar question to foreign women too. Last, the men and women are both looking for true love. Women desire good quality and sincere men (American/Western or local); American/Western men desire traditional, simple-minded, and moral women (foreign or maybe American/Western) as well. Mark Davis from Dream Connections says that an international couple must initially have chemistry when they meet in person. Therefore, he does not provide email or chat communication on his website. American/Western men have to go overseas and attend a quest tour if they want to communicate with foreign women. Mark is right about what he does. If an American/Western man has an online relationship with a foreign woman (he has never met), how can he make it work once he meets her in person? The online relationship is emotionally changed to an offline relationship. He would look, think, treat, and connect with her in a different way. It is either their offline relationship would survive or not.
Before a foreign woman becomes romantically involved with you (American/Western man), she has to know how serious and devoted you are to her. She wants to make sure that you are not going to lie, cheat, play games, etc. with her. You have to prove that you are not like a man in her country. As a result, you would have to answer these 10 possible questions from her:
- What do you do for a living?
- Where do you live?
- How old are you?
- What type of woman are you interested?
- Why have you come to my country?
- Why can’t you find a woman in your own country?
- Can or do you want to learn my language?
- Do you have or want kids?
- Do you want to meet my family/friends?
- Do you want to be with me? If so, why?
You need to be honest with her. You must be positive and confident as well. As a result, she would believe that you are different; she may fall in love with you. Her dream of finding a better man abroad has come true. You might feel the same way about her as well. If both of you really want to take your relationship to the next level, you should turn to whoever (e.g. Mark and Anna Davis, international couple and owners of Dream Connections) would help, care, provide, and have a successful relationship/marriage with a foreigner.
Questions are good to ask and answer. If you want to build a relationship with someone or vice versa, both of you have to first know each other well. It does not matter if the person is your friend, family member, neighbor, or spouse. Being in a relationship with someone you do not know or communicate is just as awkward as opening up to a stranger about your problems, needs, etc. You would try to avoid doing both things especially if you are shy. However, you would do well connecting with a foreign woman; she would not discriminate or judge you for who you are. She would probably think that she is not good enough for you. You would be amazed because of how beautiful she is.