I cannot get enough of “90 Day Fiance” television shows. I just want to see a new episode every week or so. Fortunately, I am getting a better wish – a 4th spinoff series called “90 Day Fiance: The Other Way“. I cannot wait to see Americans marrying foreigners and emigrating to their countries. It is the opposite of the regular “90 Day Fiance” television show as “90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days” is the opposite of “90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?“. I am happy that many viewers and fans are crazy about the television shows (plus web series “90 Day Fiance: What Now?“) like I am.
I enjoy watching 2 foreign women (31 year old Colombian model and fitness trainer Paola Mayfield and 23 year old Russian model Anfisa Arkhipchenko Nava) on season 3 of “90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?”. Both of them have strong personalities as well as strong international marriages with 2 American men (32 year old Russ (husband of Paola) and 28 year old Jorge (husband of Anfisa). Both Paola and Anfisa are active and popular on social media (e.g. Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube).
You (American or Westernized man) and I would assume that the women would become best friends due to their similarities. However, they instead become bigger rivals than they ever have last year. So, please read the following information about the conflict between them plus my opinion of each:
What has begun the fight between the women?
On the season 2 tell-all of “90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?” (during Summer 2017), Paola and a former castmate (and maybe current friend of hers) named Loren Brovarnik have confronted Jorge and Anfisa about not taking the K1 fiance visa process seriously. Anfisa has been fighting with Jorge about shortage of money, lying, prostitution, etc. During that time, they have been separated from each other temporarily. While they are in the break room during break, Loren and Paola confront and ask Jorge (without Anfisa) if Anfisa is a prostitute or mail order bride. He does not give a response. But, Paola has plenty of negative words to say regarding Anfisa. Anfisa either has watched or heard the gossip from maybe Jorge. Therefore, before the season 3 tell-all (which is this year) starts, she shuns Paola in the break room after Paola says hello and tries to apologize. The situation between them becomes worse eventually.
How do I feel about Paola?
Ever since the beginning of “90 Day Fiance”, I have fallen in love with Paola. 1 reason is that she is from Colombia, a country I love and respect. The other is her outgoing, family-oriented, independent, and seductive personality. Seeing her next to her then-fiance Russ on his bed makes me a little jealous of him. Fortunately, they get married later even though they have dealt with problems from his family, friends, and job(s).
Today, I do see a different side of Paola. I realize that I am not as crazy about her as I have been initially. So, here are my dislikes of her:
- being somewhat unreasonable
- She has a debate with Russ about lacking sympathy for her even though he attempts.
- saying something negative about Anfisa
- Indeed, Paola and Loren have started the feud with Anfisa (who have honestly minded her own business).
However, I am happy that Paola has tried to apologize to Anfisa for Paola and Loren’s previous actions. I also appreciate Paola for defending Russ to her longtime friend Juan. She is still in love with Russ after 4 years of marriage. She is pregnant again with his unborn child.
How do I feel about Anfisa?
I admit that I have disliked Anfisa when I have first seen her on season 4 of “90 Day Fiance”. Plus, I have not really found her attractive either. But, I start liking her especially on this season of “90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After”. The reason is that she recently has shown how much she loves Jorge, wants to keep their marriage alive, and wants him to be honest to her. She has indeed turned into another person because she has initially been so concerned about receiving money, a fancy home, and materialistic items from him.
I really hope that she does not revert to her old ways. Otherwise, she would prove the world that Paola and Loren are right that Anfisa is a gold digger. Then, Anfisa’s pretty looks would not matter. Seeing how ugly she is on the inside, Jorge might divorce her and make his family (especially his sister Lourdes) happy.
Based on the last 2 hot photos I have uploaded, both Paola and Anfisa do have nice bodies to stare for many hours.
But, their strong personalities do help me see them differently. I like Paola less than I have in the beginning. I however feel the other way around with Anfisa. Anfisa is calm and maybe cool and collected. She really does not care what other people (including Paola) say or think about her. Anfisa only becomes stronger and wiser. Maybe that explains why she has more YouTube views than Paola does.
On the other hand, Paola actually has more Facebook and Instagram followers than Anfisa does.
After all, Paola is older, more experienced, and perhaps more popular because she (plus Russ) has been on the original season of “90 Day Fiance” 4 years ago.
Would she and Anfisa ever get along and become friends?
I definitely know for sure that Anfisa feels the same way and can care less about Paola 100%.
The only way I can see both women getting along with each other is if a tragedy (e.g. a car accident, poverty, or an unexpected death of a loved one) between them occurs.
If they have to work together, they may be in the same hostile situation they are now or worse.
It is better that they keep their distance from each other thanks to Paola’s unborn child.
Then, both women can continue living their separate lives, remaining happily married, and becoming so wise that they can forgive each other and move forward to full peace.