9 Reasons Why You Should Date Colombian Ladies

I have no regrets after going to Colombia twice in a row.

If I have not gone to the amazing country, I would have not:

  • met my friend for life (Erika)
  • dated women who have many good qualities
  • gone to 1 or 2 big malls that have arcade game and ride stores, movie theaters, etc.
  • found who I really am today (despite of the changes and missing qualities in my American life)

I plan to make a third trip to maybe Barranquilla, Colombia (hometown city of Shakira and Sofia Vergara) in a few years. I also want to visit other cities for intentionally meeting and dating stunning Colombian women. If you (American or Western man) are interested in them as well, I highly recommend these other 8 cities for you to visit:

I have discussed about Ukrainian women in July this year.

Then, I have focused my attention on amazing filipinas a month ago.

Now, due to this month, I am giving you 9 good reasons for taking sexy Colombian ladies on unforgettable dates:

They are available.

Whether she is free or busy at her job, you can ask almost any Colombian woman out. A friend you meet or a total stranger you see at a public place, she would not reject, lie, or give you many poor excuses as a typical American/Western woman does. If a Colombian woman really likes or considers you a good man, she may develop feelings for you. Also, she may expect or even ask you for a second date.

An average-looking man (like yourself) would be surprised to get much attention from attractive women abroad. His family members, friends, other people at home, and even he himself would not believe that this dream has come true.

They are simple.

If you want to easily approach, communicate, and connect with diverse women, travel to a foreign country like Colombia. The women range from a light skin tone to a dark type. However, they seem to have the same positive characteristics you, I, and many other men in general like. You (as I have) can freely date any Colombian woman without facing racial discrimination (which happens frequently in United States), drama (another American/Western problem), confusion, etc. from other foreigners.

They are monogamous.

You do not have to worry about your potential Colombian girlfriend or wife cheating, wishing, or even thinking about another man. If she is serious about marriage, she may just want to be with you for the rest of her life. Similar to many other marriage-minded foreign women, she sees you as a rare treasure. She is happy because you are devoted to her. She really does not want anything or anyone else. Thus, she does not have to feel:

  • alone and unwanted
  • or urged to be with a worthless man (who is very likely a local foreigner) who mistreats her

They only believe in the word ‘we’.

One reason is that they live in a collectivistic culture. Plus, they are close to their families and friends. Foreign women believe and put the needs and perhaps desires of other people (they love) above their own. Therefore, if you want to be in a successful relationship (or marriage) and not face any selfishness, ego, complications, bitterness, child custody battle (if a divorce occurs), etc., choose a harmonious Colombian woman or anyone else similar.

They dress to impress.

If you ever go to a Colombian place (e.g. mall), you would definitely see eye candy (like I have). Most Colombian women would wear hot dresses, nice shirts with pants (e.g. jeans or leather pants), or other attractive but appropriate clothes. Expect a Colombian woman to be late for your date because she may spend extra time trying to look good for you. She wants you to respect, value, and remember her when you date other women. She knows that she is not the only existing woman with both inner and outer beauty. All she can really do is show her unique self to you.

They love to dance.

It does not matter if you can dance or not. But, if you are willing to dance, you can woo the heart of a foreign woman. As you dance with her, she would not only help you improve your dancing skills but also help you build more confidence as well. She should be the type of woman you want instead of a woman who always:

They are beautiful inside and out.

According to a CNN Travel survey, Colombian women are rated as the #1 most beautiful women of the world. Many men in the United States find these exotic women irresistible and angelic. Indeed, Barranquilla natives Shakira and Sofia have made strong influences on the men and the rest of the world with their incredible talents and characteristics. As a result, American/Western men would never look and feel the same ways about local women as the men do with Colombian women and their Ukrainian, Chinese, Philippine, etc. counterparts.

They respect men in general.

After all, Colombian ladies live in a country that favors and pays more attention to men. The women willingly adapt or have to accept the machismo culture because their loved ones and the rest of the Colombian society do.

It does not matter if a father abandons his daughter(s).

It does not matter if a woman is abused or even killed by her boyfriend or husband.

Even if a solo female or group of female victims speaks for its protection (or tries to do so), it would receive injustice and lack of sympathy from its society.

No wonder many Colombian women choose to remain single or seek better men through international dating websites such as A Foreign Affair, Colombian Cupid, and Dream Connections.

Just as the women do not have to accept bad behaviors from local men in their country, we American/Western men also do not have to put up with ongoing mistreatment from local American/Western women as well.

International dating is going to grow sooner or later; I believe it thanks to A Foreign Affair agency, YouTube blogger Olga Reznikova, and Dream Connections agency.

Finally, they would give up everything for the right man.

Colombian women want to create their love stories with their ideal boyfriends or husbands. Most women are happy with their lives, jobs, families, friends, etc. But, meeting, dating, and building serious relationships with good men (whether they are American, Westernized, or local foreign) would make them happier.

Women hope to marry men who are more valuable than what the women already have.

Then, it would not matter to each woman if she:

  • moves with her husband to:
    • United States
    • Canada
    • Australia
    • England
    • or another country he lives
  • or stays in Colombia with him
    • The reason is that he wants to permanently live in her country.
    • Some foreign women would love this possibility with the men of their dreams.

Colombian women (like other foreign women) are worth:

  • saving money
  • getting on an airplane
  • traveling thousands of miles
  • meeting, dating, and falling in love

We are not ever going to find women like them in United States or a Westernized country.

Because Colombian women would sacrifice everything and everyone they know and love for good men, we should do the same for them too. The women want unconditional love, faithfulness, respect, unity, etc. from their potential boyfriends or husbands. Women are disappointed of the qualities they cannot find in their cities or country overall. Local men with machismo attitudes make them feel worse. Women are tired of being treated like slaves, objects, victims, etc.

They (including other foreign women) deserve better.

We (plus MGTOW members and other American/Western men) deserve better too.

Therefore, both genders should turn to each other for full support, great friendships, and even everlasting love.

American/Western man with many Colombian women – latin-wife.com (International Introductions)
another American/Western man with many Colombian women – latin-wife.com
3rd American/Western man with many Colombian women – latin-wife.com

If you want to learn more information about Colombian women, culture, etc., click on the link to a Dream Connections YouTube video featuring Brian (American) and his Colombian wife Cristina:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBUhGE8JN-o (“Un Amor En Medellin“)


  1. I disagree with this article about how great Colombian women are. Every Colombian I met in the Latin Cupid website were all liars. I went to Colombia to meet 2 of them and both had boyfriend’s and denied it when I asked. They both wanted expensive things boob jobs, liposuction, nose job, ab implants, new apartments, cars for their families, motorcycles, business capital, credit card with no limit,. I found out about their boyfriend on Facebook texted with the boyfriend sent photos of her and I together to the boyfriend and his mother. They are completely opposite from what this article is declaring. They are all walking ATMS. Nothing special or different then women from the US or any other countries. I am retired military and I have lived in several different countries and money is the only key to a ” respectable relationship” with any of these colombin women or other Latino females to say the least.


    • There is a small number of foreign women (including Colombian women) that is shady and so. But, you cannot say that all foreign women are bad (without having solid proof that they are). The Colombian women I have dated (back in July 2008 and August 2009) are beautiful inside and out. Plus, I have an almost 10-year friendship with a caring Colombian woman (Erika Hammond) who is currently living in United States with her husband. I have reunited with her and have met him and her mother in Kings Dominion in August 2014. If you read my blog post “Going to Colombia”, you would see that accurate information.

      If you want to meet genuine, honest, and caring Colombian ladies, you can attend a romance tour with A Foreign Affair (loveme.com) or Dream Connections (dreamconnections.com) dating agency. I highly recommend both international dating companies to you or any other American/Western man who is serious about finding his future wife overseas. If you are still not sure, you can go on any of the international dating websites and contact the international dating/marriage experts yourself. Mark Davis of Dream Connections, who is happily married to his Ukrainian wife (Anna) of 10 years, is a good guy to call or email. 2 other guys (who are also happily married to foreign women) you can also get in contact are Bud Patterson and John Adams from A Foreign Affair (loveme.com) company. They do a live webcast every Monday night at 8:30 PM. Go on loveme.com/live or a loveme.com YouTube channel to see.

      In fact, I have written and published a review for each of A Foreign Affair and Dream Connections websites.

      I give you and other readers the truth about international dating/marriage, foreign women, American/Western culture, and so on. I provide credible photos of happy international couples, text links to good YouTube videos, contact information of international dating/marriage experts, Biblical references, etc. So, please respect and believe what I tell you. Thanks.

      Plus, I have written and published a review about the “Cupid Media” dating websites (including the “Latin Cupid” one you have mentioned) too. International online dating websites are okay. But, they are different from just going to a foreign country (e.g. Ukraine or Colombia) and meeting foreign women (for first time) on a romance tour. Read the review if you wish.


    • More American/Western men should date women from other countries because the men have trouble in dating or building normal relationships with local American/Western women at home.

      Foreign women are educated. Many of them in Ukraine, China, etc. have graduated from high school or college at early ages. Some of them have their own businesses. Plus, they can speak 2 or more languages. Do you know any family members, friends, neighbors, etc. who have college education, their own businesses, and a fluency to speak English, Spanish, etc.?

      Foreign women are not flaky. They are more normal than most women (or most people in general) in United States and the Western world. Many American/Western men, including myself, do feel comfortable and safe with foreign women. Therefore, the men do fall in love and develop serious relationships with the women.

      Honestly, I feel more comfortable with foreign women than I do with my aunts, cousins, and women I see at my job.

      Some foreign women are poor. Others are rich or middle-class. But, overall foreign women do not let wealth, riches, money, etc. change who they are. Regardless of their social statuses, they are still beautiful inside and out. They are easy to talk, ask on a date, and connect. They have respect for men in general. They still want to find their future husbands from United States, Canada, England, Australia, India, etc.

      You are right about many foreign women being needy. But, they have a right to be needy for good American/Western men. The women cannot find good foreign men or any men in their own countries. Therefore, the women have to compete with each other for the affection of men and possibly be rejected, dumped, or cheated. Or, the women have to remain single (probably for the rest of their lives). That is why the women join international dating/marriage agencies or websites. Then, they can find the right men wherever they are.

      Foreign women indeed deserve more attention, respect, etc. than what they are getting from the world.


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