A few years ago, I have thought about writing this particular blog post. However, I have hesitated due to this inappropriate topic – prostitution. Ever since I have learned about “Queen of Pattaya Thai Girl” YouTube channel, watched few of its videos, and even subscribed to it last week, I have a change of heart. I am not going to encourage you (American or Western man) to engage in prostitution whether it is legal or not. Instead, I want to inform you about these 4 subtopics:

1. The description and purpose of prostitution
2. Pros and cons of prostitution
3. International dating vs. prostitution
4. International marriage vs. prostitution and international dating

Hence, please read the following details so that you can make the best decision of your life:

Question 1: What does prostitution mean?

Prostitution occurs when someone (usually a man) pays to have sexual intercourse, masturbation, and/or something similar with another person. Whether both aroused individuals are sexually involved with each other at the streets, a brothel, or an escort business, they can still be legally charged and punished for a crime. But, if they are in the state of Nevada or a foreign country like Thailand or the Philippines, they are not considered criminals at all.

Legal prostitution tells where clients and sex workers need to be for committing protected or unprotected intimacy. Legal prostitutes (usually women) can receive safety, money, housing, and other needs as a result. Their clients (mostly men) can receive sexual satisfaction from them without:

• Facing trouble with the law or time in jail
• Telling family and friends and ruining their reputations
• Catching germs, bacteria, etc.

Illicit prostitution, unfortunately, causes both clients and sex workers to suffer negative consequences for the choices they make. The law can probably arrest and throw them in jail for a long time. Society may consider them:

• Evil
  • Illegal prostitutes (escorts and street sex workers), their pimps, and their clients are promoting human trafficking, sexual assault, pedophilia, etc.
• Repulsive
  • They are creating, contracting, and spreading sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) such as HIV and AIDS.
• Uncaring and selfish
  • They are encouraging many other people to follow their footsteps, go to the wrong direction, and even give them much money for unnecessary reasons.

However, God is able and willing to cleanse and change their destructive ways and lifestyles. All prostitutes, their clients, and their pimps have to do is repent and turn to Him fully. He considers prostitution, whether it is legit or unlawful, as a sin regardless. His intention for sex is for a married man and his wife only.

Question 2: What are the benefits and disadvantages of prostitution?

Benefit #1 – adequate or large salary

Multiple people who sell their bodies are obviously teenage and adult females. Their top reason is collecting sufficient or excess money for paying their bills, rent, shopping sprees, etc. Even if most of them frankly do not wish or enjoy having intimacy with total strangers or repeat customers, they may attempt to do so for the sake of money, financial freedom, and/or materialistic items.

Benefit #2 – choice of stopping or continuing in prostitution

Unlike human trafficking (which is forced and illegal prostitution), legal prostitution provides numerous females free will to sell their own bodies at any price and somewhere (e.g. brothels in the state of Nevada) safe and legit. They can pick whom they wish to be sexually involved and not face any problems from their managers or authorities. If they grow tired or decide to move forward to various jobs or careers, they can exit the legal brothels where they stay in Nevada temporarily or permanently. Consequently, additional ladies in general may condone legal prostitution and even become legal sex workers.

Disadvantage #1 – catching or spreading sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)

The downfall of having sexual contact with prostitutes, whether they are legal or illicit, is perhaps receiving disgusting disease(s) from them. According to a “World Health Organization” article, they are more exposed or vulnerable to diverse infections such as HIV, AIDs, syphilis, and blood-borne infections than normal people (who do not engage in prostitution whatsoever) do. What makes matters worse is some females refuse to shower, clean their bodies, and take better care of their health frequently. Street hookers and sexually active or promiscuous ones fit in this category indeed. Many men (who keep themselves clean and healthy) should avoid them entirely. However, the ladies who practice safe sex and require condoms at legal brothels deserve extra attention, respect, and even true love from men in general.

Disadvantage #2 – possible encounter with ladyboys or transgendered prostitutes

If clients (usually male) avoid visiting legal brothels in Nevada, they can unexpectedly meet and sexually hook up with other men who disguise as female sex workers or have permanently changed their gender and maybe organs. Ladyboys, also known as transgendered women, may provide sex tourism at unsuspecting places such as hotels, motels, and private homes. Nonetheless, they are easy to locate at street areas especially in popular cities such as Las Vegas and Los Angeles or countries such as Thailand, India, and Dominican Republic. Depending on their sexual preferences, clients should wisely choose where they should visit and whom they should pay for prostitution.

Disadvantage #3 – endangerment of health, reputation, life, etc.

Countless individuals are fully aware of what they are risking when it comes to prostitution. Those who are forced to have sex or should I say victims of human trafficking can always turn to the Lord Jesus Christ for safety of their health, reputation, life, etc. and those of their loved ones. Others, who are clients and prostitutes who engage in consensual intercourse with each other, may suffer or go through unpleasant results sooner or later. The main reason is described on Hebrews 13:4. The good news is that those who commit sexual immorality can repent to Him, turn away from their sins totally, and improve their lives, health conditions, and so forth. If they desire to have sex that is purified, approved by God, and devoid of negative consequences, they must have it with their spouses only. Mark 10:6 – 9 gives verification of God’s purpose and desire for the sexuality of humankind.

Question 3: Why is international dating better than prostitution, whether it is legal or illicit, is?

Now, we are moving to a more positive topic that absolutely describes this blog – international dating. It is a great experience that I have faced 5 times (July 2008, August 2009, November 2016, April-May 2018, and August 2019). International dating initially appears as intimidating, daring, and eccentric to our minds as it does to the minds of our relatives, friends, neighbors, colleagues, and other locals. Howbeit, I can reassure that you would no longer have negative feelings after traveling overseas and spending incredible time with lovely ladies who have different mindsets. Unlike prostitution, which only gives you temporary or little happiness, international dating increases your happiness plus a chance to pursue a suitable woman. Whether you gain a potential girlfriend/wife or remain single for the remainder of your life, you can still get full satisfaction from several advantages:

• Facing a culture shock abroad
• Collecting photos, videos, and other types of memorabilia that describe your vacation
• Staying in contact with foreign friend(s) via email, Skype, WhatsApp, etc.
• Appreciating more of your inner traits, way of thinking, etc.
• Realizing that you do not have to follow or do what everyone else does locally

Legal prostitution supplies additional safety to you than unlawful prostitution does. But, both sorts can lead you to the same, negative effect – loss of what you already have in your personal and professional lives. For that reason, turn to international dating which has changed my life and perspective forever. You are able to obtain 10 times more than what you have consequently.

Final Question: Why is international marriage better than both prostitution and international dating together are?

Thousands or millions of people believe that staying single brings forth joy and self-satisfaction. Nevertheless, marriage, especially the type in which you legally wed a pretty female from another nation, can really make you feel whole and content. If you disagree with me, please read the book of Genesis or watch a YouTube video of Adam and Eve’s story (that of the first couple of humanity) for confirmation. You should thus get a full understanding of why God has created marriage in the first place. Otherwise, please read below a couple of valid reasons, by author Michelle Devani, that might motivate you to search a potential foreign wife:

• Experiencing a culture shock but positive atmosphere
• Building long-lasting friendships with easygoing and optimistic individuals (e.g. translators you hire and ladies you date)
• Finding someone of a different gender, culture, race, etc. who understands and accepts you 100%
• Becoming a better version of yourself
• Learning new details or brainstorming new ideas for improvement of your life, potential business, and so on
• Envisioning a positive side of everything even if it is negative, difficult, or unpopular
• Having a different attitude toward marriage and family
• Creating and finishing a bucket list solo or together with a special someone
• Not worrying about feeling alone and rejected anymore

Both legit and unlawful prostitution give you limited time with a stunning lady or ladies for an expensive price. International dating also provides you a short amount of time except that it fortunately costs you less money and gives you a better chance to bond with women whom you can see and communicate again. Despite that international marriage requires you to earn or have a median income for yourself and your future wife, international marriage is worth the cost as well as worth the wait. You just need to:

• Plan and budget the needed amount of money for K1 or K2 fiance visa process, green card process, wedding, etc.
• Develop (more) patience when it comes to legally gaining approval from USCIS, U.S. Embassy, etc. in addition to physically reuniting with her and lawfully supporting her goal to become a citizen in your country
• Stay positive, healthy, and sane during the difficult and waiting times

Conclusion

We men actually get the best of both worlds. In one world, we can turn to legal prostitutes in Nevada brothels or similar places overseas for safe sex and keep it in secrecy from our loved ones and others back where we live. But, we can choose the other world that has many available women who just want to be in marital relationships with the right men. Then, there is the “third world” (not the non-Westernized countries) which I depict where we are now. The problems with it are:

• Lack of female attention
• Rise in loneliness
• Encouragement of entering possibly negative relationships with local women

I cannot wait to escape to the world where ladies take men and marriage more seriously and deal with a male dominant culture and society. What about you?

Eye candy is everywhere. Therefore, you, I, and other men can pick where to go plus whom we are interested. The usual issues that stand in our ways are:

• Shortage of money that we earn
• Unreasonable family members, friends, and locals whom we have to deal on a regular basis
• Nonstop duties and responsibilities that we have

Fortunately, God controls, solves, and simplifies every difficulty or obstacle that tries its best to stop or discourage us.

I am so relieved that we males do not have to live the rest of our lives according to the beliefs, desires, etc. of other people.

In addition, I am also grateful that we can avoid being encouraged or manipulated into being with local ladies who may discourage, criticize, mock, cheat, and/or take what we have if our relationships deteriorate.

Escape to a better and more comfortable reality where you can meet women from heaven.

Make the most out of your possible vacation.

If you are serious about marrying a foreign lady, continue having honest and positive communication with her on Skype or WhatsApp.

Plan your next trip so that you can see her in person again, talk and plan a marriage proposal to her, and get ready for the K1 or K2 fiance visa and green card process once you return to the States or Western world.

Allow yourself to be on top of the world with her by your side.

Combine the best from her world with yours.

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I would do my best to reply and help you go after your long-term goals despite of endless barriers.

Happy Thanksgiving 2023 to you.