Everyone wants peace, joy, protection, freedom, etc. whether he or she is at home, a job, or a public place (i.e. a business, church, or grocery store).

However, humanity should always expect the unexpected because another obstacle or difficulty always occur and replace a current issue(s) that you (American or Westernized man) or I face in my life.

Why does God allow problems to exist and continue?

Read a “Questioning Christianity” article by Dan Peterson for a detailed answer.

Another good source is the “Does God cause suffering?” article on gotquestions.org as well.

Because God is more than capable of turning every negative into a positive, we do not have to worry about anything or anyone who comes against us. Wondrous things emerge as a result every time. The same thing applies to these 3 specific domestic issues that I describe below.

Learn how each of them can cause or create a strong and successful international relationship.

Problem 1 – disappointment or frustration from online/local dating

If you ask anyone a question about dating in general, you may get a negative reaction or no answer whatsoever. It is understandable that multiple human beings (including famous ones on YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram) dislike or have skepticism in pursuing the right partners or spouses through dating websites/apps electronically or certain places locally. Numerous men in United States and other first world nations fit in this category without a doubt. Therapist and author Theodora Blanchfield of “Verywellmind.com” explains that the majority of males (or people overall) worry about being too vulnerable or receiving mutual feelings from the opposite sex. Another reason for their negativity toward online/local dating is how the American/Western culture portrays it on print media, social media, etc. They have been watching, listening, and/or reading information that is so disturbing, uncomfortable, and/or inspiring to psychotic murderers, sex offenders, and other violent criminals.

So, how can you and other American/Western males heal, move forward, and start visualizing a positive side of dating? Turn to international dating as the ultimate answer. But, before planning, budgeting, and going on a trip in a foreign country to meet/date/connect with exotic ladies with different mentalities, please work on the improvement of your livelihood, health, professional life, and so forth. If you become serious about tying the knot with a foreign female someday, get everything in your life straightened out. Seek support from a foreign translator or matchmaker, international dating expert, and/or American/Western expat who is happily married to a foreign woman. Watching nonstop YouTube videos, particularly from sincere and trustworthy agencies such as A Foreign Affair (AFA), Match Guaranty, and My Colombian Wife (MCW) is essential for changing your opinion toward dating in general and pondering the remainder of your life with the woman of your dreams. Like myself, you may become more content that you are:

• still single
• not romantically or sexually interested or involved with a local lady (or ladies)
• eager to meet someone better overseas

Indeed, international couples or international dating attracts extra people and gives them additional benefits than domestic couples or domestic dating does.

Problem 2 – arranged or forced marriages

Childhood may give us plenty of fun memories, less freedom, and more rules to follow and obey for the sake of our parents/guardians, teachers, etc. However, to become dependent men who are pressured, encouraged, or forced to marry local American/Western women whom we do not know, love, or even like is a nightmarish experience that I do not wish on anyone. I give my condolences to individuals (regardless of their nationalities and genders) who are stuck in unhappy marriages (caused by manipulative, egotistical, controlling, and/or abusive relatives or society members) against their will. There is a quote “Be careful who you marry” except that they have no choice. If some men see singledom as a curse, then they may have second thoughts after studying or experiencing arranged/forced marriage. Fortunately, they have the chance to marry foreign ladies who can woo their hearts and fulfill/exceed their expectations. In fact, here are several things that potential foreign wives are able to successfully accomplish and use to defeat possible arranged/forced wives:

• respecting the feelings, needs, rights, desires, etc. of their potential husbands or boyfriends
• training or teaching their daughters and other young ladies in their nations the right reasons to get married – reciprocal love, respect, acceptance, and commitment between a male and female
• sharing, agreeing, or doing certain activities that make the men happy and satisfied
• refusing to collaborate, scheme, or side with family members, friends, and other locals who believe in arranged/forced marriages or oppose international/interracial marriages

Although multiple arranged/forced couples are prominent for retaining their family traditions alive and not getting divorces quickly or at all, thousands or millions of international couples can solidify the unions of their varied cultures, overcome any obstacles together for the survival of their relationships, and inspire countless singles to seek true love abroad like they have. International couples bring a new, authentic, and positive meaning of human connection around the world. As as result, many single or divorced American/Western males no longer have to remain lonely, miserable, discouraged, and/or encouraged to meet/date/bond with local women who may not really love, appreciate, desire, or prioritize them. If the guys need much guidance, sympathy, and affection, they should instead reach out or watch helpful videos from international couples and/or even interracial couples who represent:

• diversity of humankind
• unlimited freedom
• revealing will of God
• unconditional love from Him
• abundance of respect
• vast selflessness

“”I WANT Love” Foreigner on Dating Filipinas” video – “Philippine Women” YouTube channel

Problem 3 – loneliness or rejection from local American/Western women

The loneliness epidemic has put much risk in the mental and physical health of numerous teen and young adult males according to CNN author Taylor Nicioli. They may feel the same negatively whether they are around other people or actually by themselves. Nonetheless, what can make the lonesome men worse is being overlooked or rejected by their family members, friends, and/or other locals. If loved ones treat the males like they are ghosts or garbage, then the guys may be prone to resentment, bitterness, suicidal attempts, and/or other negative or destructive behaviors. Most local American/Western women, in reference to authors Jonas Grinevicius and Dominyka of “boredpanda.com” website, may reject the opposite sex due to these reasons:

• saying inappropriate comments online, offline, or both
• being too nice or trying so hard to do so
• earning or having average or small amount of money
• dressing like a hobo, slob, or bum
• being too aggressive, honest, and/or formal

I have included some of my thoughts in the bulleted list too. But, the males can indeed overcome loneliness and rejection if they are willing and financially capable of traveling to Latin America, Asia, Europe, or even Africa. Many foreign ladies in all 4 of these continents are always open, interested, and available to them with open arms. Even if some females ghost or refuse to talk, date, or connect with the males, the guys can easily or quickly move forward to other ladies who are more beautiful inside and out. I reassure you that fact because I have befriended and managed FCW business with an Ukrainian translator/matchmaker (Elizabeth) for almost 4 years. Truly, an international bond or a happily married international couple can help a sad and mad American/Western single male confront his demons and find everlasting peace and joy within himself and through God.

“3 Reasons Why MOST Women Reject Men (It’s Not Your Fault)” video – “Darius M” YouTube channel

Conclusion

Problems are inescapable. Howbeit, they are able to send us to their solutions and our destinies. Difficulties support us in overcoming diffidence plus make a positive difference in our minds, hearts, attitude, etc.

Thanks to social media, online articles, blog posts, etc., we can forever imagine something extraordinary from mediocrity or something beneficial (to many other humans) from evil, disaster, or tragedy.

Online or local dating does not stand a chance with international dating.

Arranged or forced marriage cannot compete or be in the same level of happiness with international marriage.

Loneliness or rejection is not capable of stopping or separating you from the woman who is suitable for your needs, desires, feelings, etc.

God is in thorough control and has the final say according to famed American author and televangelist Joel Osteen.

God always knows what is ahead of time and thus leads us to the place(s) where He wants us to be.

Problems are blessings in disguise.

Without them, we may become cursed if we stay or become trapped in the same place indefinitely.

For that reason, give thanks to God who rescues and delivers you to the solutions with a stunning woman waiting to be with you.

Let go and let God…

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Also, enjoy this new video from a beautiful Ukrainian woman (Valeria) who can help me, you, or any other American/Western man psychologically escape from his painful reality.

“What Mistakes Did I Do? Part 2…” – my and Elizabeth’s YouTube channel