Besides the recent blog post about legal brothels in Nevada and certain foreign countries, this is another blog post that I cannot ignore or avoid writing. For the past month, I have visited a local strip club and 2 gentlemen’s clubs locally. The strip club (Gentlemen’s Playground) is the cheapest place to enter, see half-nude ladies, and get private lap dances. The first gentlemen’s club (Rick’s Cabaret) that I have gone has more space within the building and a variety of stripteasers. The other gentlemen’s club, Cheetah Premier, is the most expensive place although it is more formal, professional, diverse, and enticing to people who visit or live nearby the Raleigh-Durham international airport. I honestly like all 3 of them because I can get plenty of female attention, improve my social skills, and distract myself from everyday problems. Until I am more financially able to save money and plan a trip back to Colombia (for a romance tour from A Foreign Affair agency) or a country nearby Ukraine (so that I can possibly and safely reunite with Elizabeth and Valeria regarding Foreign Chat Web (FCW) business), I would continue visiting the adult entertainment clubs occasionally. But, I prioritize this blog of 7 years and my online business of almost 4 years so that I can achieve my ultimate goals in life.

What do a strip club, gentlemen’s club, and international dating have in common with each other?

How are they different from each other professionally, personally, emotionally, etc.?

If you (American or Western man) are ever interested in visiting a local strip club, local/national gentlemen’s club, and/or a foreign country for international love, please read the benefits and downfalls of each below:

Strip Clubs/Gentlemen’s Clubs

Pro #1 – simple access to attractive and approachable ladies

Unless you are rich, charismatic or experienced with multiple local ladies, or financially able to visit legal brothels (in Nevada perhaps) or meet/date/bond with foreign ladies overseas, you can only go to local adult entertainment club(s) for immediate entry to the opposite gender. According to my personal experiences at 3 separate clubs, you may become initially nervous and speechless once you encounter partially or entirely naked strippers. However, if you make a second, third, or subsequent time to the same place(s), you may gain more comfort and confidence to have simple and specific conversations with various females. The same thing may apply if you patronize other strip clubs/gentlemen’s clubs as well. Whether you are shy or outgoing, inexperienced or adept with beauties, and/or broke or wealthy, you can still create positive experiences and healthier relationships with other people as long as you plan in advance, budget regularly, and remain positive and authentic to who you are on the inside.

Pro #2 – affordability of entrance fee, food/beverages, services of stripteasers, etc.

An article source from bucksclubs.com confirms that you can get low prices on everything – entering a strip club (which is compared to a motel or less developed place), consuming food/drinks, and getting private lap dances or quality time with certain strip dancer(s). The problem is that you may get mediocre or poor customer satisfaction after paying a cheap cost there totally. Ergo, if you prefer better experiences, start hanging out at a gentlemen’s club (which is compared to a resort or hotel) instead. Be ready to spend extra money or start saving it in order to achieve your goals. Once you arrive at the gentlemen’s club, sit at a nice and clean table, relax, enjoy a tasty meal (i.e. grilled T-boned steak with crinkled fries, steamed broccoli, and imported beer), and gain attention from gorgeous dancer(s) especially if she or they join you. You may thus begin thinking that your extraordinary experience is worth the high cost.

2 American/Western guys talking about adult entertainment clubs – “Intoxicated Opinions” YouTube channel

Con #1 – poor/low chance of building a serious relationship with exotic dancer(s)

If you expect a friendship, intimacy, or a serious connection with a beautiful performer, you may be disappointed. You can honestly meet numerous women who are willing and capable of giving you whatever you want/need in a foreign country (e.g. Thailand, Philippines, Colombia, or Germany) on second thought. But, in a local strip club or gentlemen’s club within the United States or a Westernized nation, you have to follow its rules and procedures so that you can continue going there. Showing respect, appreciation, kindness, and other positive traits to diverse stripteasers, whether you find them attractive or not, is going to lead you in good terms with them. They may reward you with discounts on their private services, entrance fee, etc. next time that you visit. Who knows? You may receive their contact or social media (i.e. Instagram or TikTok) details. If so, you might find true love with a performer by reaching out to her electronically and later asking her to meet/date you in person.

Con #2 – experiencing fatigue, boredom, loneliness, etc. if frequenting strip clubs

Increasing your visits to adult entertainment club(s) may diminish your excitement level. You may start believing that you are wasting your gas, time, energy, emotions, and obviously money on amazing, irresistible, and talented ladies who cannot or do not want any relationship with you. You may be tempted to focus on something cheaper or “better” – watching pornographic/fantasy videos, photos, etc., going on mediocre dating websites/apps, or trying to talk and ask out attractive females who may see you as a creep, pervert, or loser. Any of these replacements may eventually leave you discouraged, lonesome, and/or misogynistic. Consequently, you should go to a local place (e.g. church, school, or community) where you can get unlimited help, advice, etc. from positive female influencers. If you still fail or have difficulty in pursuing a lady to date or become your possible girlfriend/wife, then begin saving money and planning an upcoming trip in Latin America, Europe, Asia, or Africa. Your expectations abroad and with foreign women can become more fulfilled or exceeded.

American/Western male giving facts about strip clubs/gentlemen’s clubs – “iBeShucks” YouTube channel

International Dating

Pro #1 – opportunity to meet, date, and connect with diverse women

Why do you think that I have gone to 3 countries – Colombia, Dominican Republic, and Ukraine? Why do you assume that I have created this unique blog of 7 years? More importantly, why do you believe that I am persistent with FCW business with Elizabeth? All 3 questions relate to this short answer – international dating. It has forever, positively, and spiritually changed who I am ever since I have first learned about it in 2005. I highly recommended it to you and thousands/millions of other American/Western men because you guys would find unlimited happiness and have zero regrets. If you stay where you live, you may join many local people who choose to stay in their comfort zones, grow old with their small-mindedness, and pass away with limited happiness and many regrets. If not, then motivate and allow yourself to find what and who brings out the best within you when you go overseas. Like myself, you can easily seek a friend, business partner, and/or an angelic woman who is worthy of marrying and having possible children. She is more willing and able to take care of your needs/desires than a typical local American/Western female does.

Nowadays, it is easier to talk and bond with someone of a different culture, nationality, mentality, race, etc. Many American/Western men, including myself, strongly believe in dating various women in different nations. If you disagree with me and wish to get an expert opinion, please read an article by clicking this clickable website link:

• datingadvice.com/online-dating/does-international-dating-really-work

Pro #2 – reception of adequate support, guidance, advice, etc. from hired translator(s) or matchmaker(s)

A sincere, trustworthy, and goal-oriented translator or matchmaker in the country (e.g. Colombia, China, Norway, or South Africa) you are interested in finding a potential girlfriend/wife is necessary. The translator/matchmaker can send you in the right direction, provide tips, and help you meet the right females and take them to safe places for unforgettable dates. Unlike a Passport brother, you must be willing to spend extra money plus listen to someone who lives and knows the foreign culture, most of its citizens, etc. well. You can save or avoid being worried, frustrated, robbed, harmed, and/or possibly killed. Instead, you can just focus on enjoying your exotic vacation and being with the woman of your dreams at any speed (slow, normal, or fast) you and she choose together. Author Vince Ricco of “Tawkify” website may persuade you to do the tasks below if you decide to hire a foreign translator/matchmaker for your successful journey in international love:

• Analyze the advantages and disadvantages of the professional.
• Let him or her be (fully) aware of your personality traits, hobbies, likes, dislikes, beliefs, etc.
• Investigate his or her background, previous and current relationships with others, company he or she is employed, etc.
• Talk and negotiate with him or her about prices that you are willing or able to afford.
• Whether you actually seek the right lady or not, hold him or her accountable for matching you to different females and decide whether or not you wish to rehire him or her.

American/Western man providing his perspective about Colombian ladies – “Medellin Women” YouTube channel

Con #1 – unpleasant expenses involving romance tour(s), transportation, hotel or apartment stay, translator/matchmaker service fees, fiancé visa process, etc.

No one, including a rich individual, craves to spend a large amount of money regardless. But, when it comes to unexpected and life-changing effects, he may change his mind. A solid relationship or marriage with a foreign woman is his strong motivator. If she indeed has the characteristics, attitude, and skills that he has tried to seek within previous women whom he has dated or been seriously involved, he would perhaps go above and beyond for her sake. He also needs to know if he can fully trust her with his wealth, belongings, business(es), etc., if something happens to him. If she passes the test and woos his heart, then the rest is history. Money and materialistic things may come and go. Howbeit, a person with an intangible, unchangeable, and clean heart like hers would stay with him mentally/emotionally in this world and the afterlife.

Con #2 – possible frustration or discouragement if the right woman or women have not been found or met during romance tour(s)

Negative emotions may pop in your head if you fail in building a long-distance relationship with 1 or few ladies at the end of your possible group or individual romance tour abroad. As a result, you may wish to give up and turn to loneliness or mediocre dating with local American/Western women. But, do not let your return to square one prevent you from entering the wrong path or the one that leads you to misery and regret. In fact, write a strategy including your short-term and long-term goals. If possible, get in touch with an expat, friend, relative, and/or foreigner who can assist you in a step-by-step guide of seeking Mrs. Right in Poland, Germany, Colombia, Philippines, or any other non-Westernized country of your choice. Save enough money to pay for another romance tour, flight tickets, hotel or apartment stay, translator or matchmaker service fees, dates, etc. Keep records of your budget on a notebook, email message, or document file. Move forward and realize that you may get a different but positive outcome for the next time you go back overseas. The woman who is right for you does exist because God has made someone for everyone despite of everything that you witness. I reassure you that fact due to my own story. For additional details about group and individual romance tours, please visit these links and actively read the words:

• Inspiriationalwomenseries.com/romance-tours/
• “Group Romance Tour versus Individual Romance Tour”
• “How Is A Romance Tour Beneficial to American Men and Foreign Women?”

American/Western man (Stryker) and Ukrainian woman (Luba) discussing international relationship issues – “Heart Rocket, International Matchmakers” YouTube channel

Conclusion

There is that phrase “You get what you pay for…”.

A strip club is a cheap and affordable place where you can stare at stunning ladies who dance seductively and wear provocative clothing and you do not have to worry about being kicked out, threatened, or treated as a pervert or predator. You can just enjoy being in their presence instead of being at home and looking at photos/videos of unavailable women. If you have enough money, you may be able to spend private time with 1 or 2 of the exotic dancers.

If you want to be treated better, go somewhere better – a local or national gentlemen’s club. It gives you an upgraded version of the overall atmosphere, menu of food and beverages, bathrooms, and of course variety of ladies from all walks of life. You would probably be tempted to stay there longer because of the royal treatment, comfort, respect, etc. that you are not going to receive at a strip club (which many people perhaps compare to a deadbeat motel or abandoned home).

Unfortunately, you cannot build a healthy and long-lasting relationship with a stripteaser. It does not matter if you visit a strip club or gentlemen’s club. You must consider these things from each place:

• As a customer, you have to follow its rules and guidelines so that you are not forced to leave or banned permanently.
• Realize that the strip dancers might get in trouble, suspension, or termination if any of them develops an inappropriate relationship with you and other customers.
• The strippers may succeed in pretending that they are interested in you and other customers because they just want to collect your money for their own needs/desires.
• Mixing business with pleasure (i.e. sexual intimacy) or something personal may lead to negative results.

It is just as difficult to find an ideal and committed girlfriend/wife at an adult entertainment club as it is anywhere else in United States or the Western world.

But, the good news is that you can find a woman who fulfills or exceeds your expectations in Latin America, Europe, Africa, or Asia.

You do not have to worry about sneaking around, doing something forbidden, or hiding your relationship with her.

In addition, you can skip the anguish of wasting your money, time, energy, etc.

Going to a local strip club or gentlemen’s club is beneficial for:

• Improving your social skills (especially if you are shy, quiet, or reserved)
• Feeling more comfortable around unknown but pretty female strippers
• Escaping from mediocrity, loneliness, and/or misery at your job with difficult coworkers/managers/customers and your home with difficult roommates/family members

However, remain realistic, plan in advance, save/spend your money wisely, get on an airplane, and expect to find the woman of your dreams abroad.

She is waiting to meet you, get to know you well, and do anything to make or keep you content and secure with her.

If your relationship with her turns into a marriage, then she may reward you with surprising and seductive clothes plus spectacular entertainment behind closed doors.

Get all of that from her free of charge.