I need to take a break from writing and publishing blog posts about finances and the stock market. So, I decide to shift my focus back to the main reason why this blog exists – international dating. I can never get tired of talking about visiting other countries and spending quality time with gorgeous and angelic foreign ladies. I really want to find my future wife in Colombia or Eastern Europe someday. Furthermore, I wish to continue discussing this topic with you (American or Westernized man) for the remainder of my life.

Before I have started dating the opposite sex in Barranquilla, Colombia in July 2008 (16 years ago…hard to believe that it has been that long), I have desired to go on a group romance tour especially with I Love Latins agency. Unfortunately, lacking enough money or returning to community college at the same time when the next group romance tour is scheduled has forced me to pick an individual romance tour instead. Even though I have spent most of my vacation time there, Santiago, Dominican Republic (in November 2016) and then Odessa, Ukraine (in April – May 2018) by myself, I have enjoyed the culture shocks of 3 separate cultures and met unforgettable females (including my business partner (Elizabeth)) who still take my breath away every time I think of them. They are a great distraction whenever an American man, chiefly a dark-skinned sort like myself, is constantly rejected, discriminated, badmouthed, etc. by others around him locally.

Below is the information that I wish to describe and cause to happen as my ideal group romance tour with A Foreign Affair (AFA or loveme.com) agency. The details would be broken into 2 categories with each of their own 2 sections. Hopefully, you would become interested in going on a group romance tour after reading my thoughts.

PHYSICAL CATEGORY

Appearance of Colombian group romance tour

I continuously enjoy watching YouTube videos of AFA group romance tours that occur in:

• Latin America (Colombia, Peru, and Costa Rica)
• Eastern Europe (now only Kiev, Ukraine)
• Asia (Thailand, China, and Philippines)

I wish that I can experience one at a nice luxurious hotel ballroom in real life so that I can be exposed to beautiful and marriage-minded females. Although I am introverted, I have no objection in conversating and befriending like-minded American/Western males if I ever go on a group romance tour. We can avoid feeling alone, worry less about what is happening, whether it is positive or negative, with our loved ones and belongings at home, find our true selves, and even go on double dates with diverse bombshells. Taking photos and/or recording video clips of us talking, eating, laughing, etc. together are major pluses. Sharing such electronic evidence with other people may help them see our perspective toward international dating/relationships as well as inspire them to make better decisions in their lives personally, professionally, financially, etc.

How do you feel about attending a group romance tour? If you are nervous or uninterested, then do some research, watch YouTube videos like I do, write a list of pros and cons, and/or even get in touch with the main CEO (John Adams) of AFA agency or his staff. Despite that I have not met the personnel (except Anna in Odessa) or ever gone on a group romance tour, at least I have been present for 5 individual romance tours (2 in Barranquilla, 1 in Santiago, and 2 in Odessa) totally. They have turned me into a smarter and more positive person who no longer has to depend on small-minded relatives, shortage of money, a crummy job, and other barriers for ultimate happiness. You too can be free if you set your mind to joy in the unknown. Even if you do not find the right woman on your first, second, or subsequent romance tour (whether it is a group or solo category), you would be glad that you have gone on one like most American/Western men and I do. Having a new perspective of yourself and your life overall is essential nowadays.

Fashion of American/Western male clients and Colombian female clients

For the 2 separate social events of the group romance tour, I would like to wear a nice plaid shirt, black pants, and dressed but casual black shoes. In addition, I would make sure to get a haircut so that I feel or look like an authentic gentleman to the eyes of the opposite gender. Of course, I am wholly aware that we are treated based on how we dress. Looks may not be as important as our character and attitude do. However, physical appearances can assist us in obtaining decent jobs and/or build professional bonds with other experts. Being pursued or asked for a date is another possible outcome too. I would love to face that especially from a certain Colombian woman (or women) who catch my attention with her stylish red (my favorite color) dress and high heel pumps anyway. If not, then I need the bravery to approach, conversate, and ask if she or they wish to date me instead. My nice clothes and haircut are capable of giving me extra confidence for accomplishing my intention(s). If you want to succeed in connecting with gorgeous ladies, regardless of their nationality or nationalities, you must notice and take good or better care of your:

• hair
• fingernails
• face
• mouth (including your teeth and breath)
• other body features

Writer Prapoorna M. of “Wellness Hub” website verifies that self-care leads to sympathy, respect, and willingness to help others achieve their goals. In other words, if you are truly concerned about your well-being, then you are going to encourage others to do the same for theirs as well. Do not be surprised if they also look after yours in return.

“NEGATIVE IMPACT of Foreigners on Colombian Dating” video – “MedellinDating,com” YouTube channel

SPIRITUAL CATEGORY

Our personalities

I admit that I do not have the best or most likable personality at all. In fact, some people are going to like me for who I am despite what I do or do not do for them. Others may reject, avoid, and/or plot to manipulate me so that I can give them something (i.e. money, jewelry, or even intangible words or ideas that can benefit their net worth) in return. The same things can happen with international dating as well. During a romance tour (whether it is a group or individual type), I may be tempted to choose the wrong women for dating and knowing well due to their irresistible appearances. Howbeit, if I have an interpreter, whom I consider a friend or “second mom”, to accompany me, she may tell or encourage me to pay extra attention to the inner qualities of my dates. In fact, something like this has happened to me during my first vacation in Barranquilla in July 2008. My former translator (Erika) has rescued me from going on a ripped off date with a gold digger. Around a decade after that time, my 3rd former translator, who is my current business partner (Elizabeth), has introduced me to remarkable Ukrainian females who have brought much optimism in my life and vice versa. I can reassure that you can avoid being scammed, lied, mistreated, and/or discouraged by the opposite gender by hiring and listening to your feasible translator or matchmaker. If she really likes and wishes to maintain a long-term personal relationship with you, you can count on her to assist you in conquering your quest to seek Ms. Right.

If I have to select 3 traits within my ideal girlfriend or wife, I would come up with this brief list:

• open-minded
• fashionable
• goal-oriented

Needless to say, I wish to get along and conversate with her about any difficulties that she, I, or we face together. Concerning the second personality attribute, she needs to appropriately dress based on her current age. If she wears clothes that embarrass and make her resemble a weirdo, hobo, or prostitute, then she can either alter her wardrobe or move forward to another guy who can tolerate or dress the same way she does. Lastly, I hope that she is on the same mental level with me anent our aspirations. According to an anonymous author of “calm.com” website, she and I can boost our connection through:

• talking to each other about what we want or need specifically
• planning special dates at assorted places and even our home together
• solving challenges from each other physically, emotionally, financially, etc.
• deciding if we want to have children (whether they are biological, adopted, or both)
• creating a joint account, partnership, or both

If you ever become sincere and eager to find true love at a romance tour or elsewhere, I highly suggest that you formulate list(s) and questionnaire(s) for yourself and the lady (or ladies) who draws your attention. The supplementary details that you and she (or they) realize are able to prevent you from wasting time and facing heartbreak.

Our feelings, abilities, and thoughts

Due to my Christian upbringing, I must be with a lady who shares the same values with me. She has to be aware or willing to learn that Christ Jesus has died on the cross for our sins so that we can repent, turn to Him completely, and spend eternity with Him and the Father one day. Obviously, I do not expect every lady whom I encounter or date to believe in Christianity as I do. As long as she is friendly, selfless, and harmless, then we can get along and create wonderful time(s) together.

When it comes to evolution of our connection, we need to eventually see eye to eye about our obstacles, responsibilities, etc. Life is unpredictable due to our lack of control or understanding of unexpected events, whether they are positive or negative, that occur in this world. Writer, speaker, and wellness coach Eileen Benthal of “Riverhead Local” website verifies that we are only capable of doing these duties during tragic or unbearable times:

• controlling our thoughts
• praying and surrendering everything we have to Christ
• speaking or writing our negative incidents formally, professionally, and positively

One recreation that I frankly desire to do with a Colombian date is taking her to a roller-skating rink. While she and I are skating, dancing, holding hands, and listening to various music, which I hope as a blend or back-to-back playback of American and Spanish music, our interpreter can snap photos and/or record video clips of our enjoying our time together. In addition, whether I date the same woman again or a different one, she and I can attend a county fair or another fun locale. I may truly be in a generous spirit because I would like to buy and give her cotton candy, an oversized stuffed animal, and/or other prizes that make her a feel like a winner on the inside. Possibly taking our bond to the next level may prompt me to buy more presents for her physically and sentimentally. In return, she may reciprocate so that we can be even as well. Howbeit, if our relationship abruptly fails or ends, then at least we can retain our memories (through practical images/videos) separately. Developing and sharing them with other individuals, who may actually be my future wife and her potential husband, are going to keep our international dating legacy alive.

All things considered, I want you to focus on having fun and enjoying your dates to the fullest. Whether you ever attend an individual or group romance tour with AFA agency, your future self is going to thank you as a result. You can also avoid regretting your actions too.

“American Dating Latinas in Medellin…” video – “Love for Sale?” YouTube channel

Conclusion

Inflation, unemployment, injustice, debts, etc. are doing a great job in keeping countless human beings, including myself and perhaps you, miserable and stuck in our everyday stumbling blocks. Nonetheless, we must always perceive the optimistic side plus solution of each issue that we endure. How we feel about ourselves, how others treat us, and what we face (whether it is moral or unfair) are going to change for the better periodically.

I regularly show my gratitude to the Lord for guiding, protecting, and letting me vacation in Colombia, Dominican Republic, and Ukraine safely and profoundly. I have zero regrets of the:

• positive experiences that I have
• exceptional people whom I have bonded
• life-changing online business (FCW) that I have generated with Elizabeth

So, without a doubt, I want you to take a risk in pursuing your entire happiness abroad like I have.

Misery loves company as 16th century English playwright and poet Christopher Marlowe has originally and famously spoken. It yearns for you to stay where you live permanently. Let go and let God deal with the unavoidable, uncontrollable, or unbearable that is ruining your health, sanity, etc.

Life is a short gift from Him to you. Do not waste any time in negativity. Overcome your daily ordeals so that you can absolutely focus and walk toward your goals.

Like myself, if you are also interested in entering an AFA group or individual romance tour, please purchase or obtain a notebook for explaining your strategy consistently. Keep following and updating your master plan in order to make quick and simple progress of your goal accomplishment. Typing the step-by-step process on Microsoft Word software is recommendable because you can become more helpful, clever, and serious in what you truly desire/need in your life.

AFA agency has been eagerly drawing and aiding millions of American/Western males connect with females in Latin America, Eastern Europe, and Asia monogamously for almost 30 years. I want to join the honest and amazing international dating agency for the 4th time as soon as possible. It does not make a difference which romance tour I attend despite that the individual type is cheaper. However, the group type is going to expose me to additional lovely women and like-minded American/Western men as my friends for life.

If you are provided that once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, you can candidly better your life and become the man you have dreamed since childhood.

To find that unforgettable lady who can complete you is a big plus.

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